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old dude answered today:

5 stars Mom good answer.

old dude answered today:

I dont believe in depression! I look at the Sun and think happy thoughts even when life is kicking my ass.

old dude answered today:

you wake up and you are still breathing!

Rabiit answered today:

hehe… hey harpuia? i guess i wasnt the only one who sees it like that huh? lol… but i guess we have to learn what and how your saying what you do this way, or another one im unfamilar with.

old dude answered today:

I like that.

Stained answered today:

easier said than done… how can i grow up… when i dont have any freedom im stuck with my parents till im 25 or 27 whatever that sucks :/

Stained answered today:

sighs amazingly, my sisters guy friends jumped outta my closet today scared me so much i fainted _ ’

old dude answered today:

I truly wish I could Dennis because I would but I think most of us adults here are in the same boat, I myself am gonna file Bankruptcy this month I just cant do it either. Sorry Man

old dude answered today:

Good Luck Kid whatever you decide, when your done with that you should join the Army or Marines you sound like you got the grit for it

Rabiit answered today:

man…. its like few see the truth anymore…. :/

old dude answered today:

I love yogurt just cant afford it as much as I would like

old dude answered today:

LOL Mom I think I love you, That is so true isnt it! I am old school as well and was brought up that way myself. I have a good group of friends and we dont keep count of who did what for whom They call I go I call they come as a matter of fact I entered this answer on a friends PC after I fixed it 215.00 job for anyone else I wont get payment and dont expect payment our friendship is payment enough for me. AHHHH The good old days They are fading fast Mom really fast.

Jacko answered today:

Hey guys, thanks for your responses. The coin toss idea ended up turning into best of 3… then 5, 7 and onwards! haha. I have been to a doctor, knee specialist and orthopedic surgeon and have had x-rays and an MRI . They know about my situation and have been very helpful and have not ruled me out on going to Japan. Which was a surprise. They have said that 4 weeks will not be enough time for it to heal at all, but if I can wear a brace to support my knee which is comfortable enough to wrestle in, then it ‘might’ be ok. Of course no guarantees that it wont just explode inwards. I guess I just need to know what others would do in my situation.

THE MOM answered today:

Well now that old dude was pretty harsh but alot of people dont understand how some people are. Not everyone is the same thank god! Your only 19 that’s great you have alot of potential. Even if you were the devil incarcerated you are not evil. If you really want your life to be different you need to take the bull by the horn. Check into adoptions even an open one in your family. Think about the military it could help you develop self discipline. Which sounds like what you are lacking. Alot of young kids today dont know how to be an adult because they are not taught. I have an 18 year old living with me because her parents threw her out as soon as she reached age. Which is fine yea but she didn’t know how to cook anything except microwave and no laundry skills hell she didn’t even have her drivers license yet not to mention she had no idea about money at all but she has come a long way since her birthday luckily she is a sweet girl and makes friends easily so her l...

october answered today:

Go for a walk with some music :)

october answered today:

Haha harpuia. Wait… didn’t you change your name?? Um anyway… Bananabug… it’s difficult to say what you should do. You’re not going to like this but I would suggest you just stick it out and don’t do anything – act like nothing’s changed, because these feelings might not last that long and you really don’t want to lose your best friend because of it.

THE MOM answered today:

Well sounds like you may have been rebound although he may just need some space to think things through. What you cant do is dog yourself out if you float around or even follow him around well that wont do. I know its hard but you need to place him out of your "life" by his choice. I mean life goes on talk to friends go out carry on like you did before him when you run into him be polite say hey how are you? etc. keep on living in the now. If he cares about you he will be back if he doesn’t well honestly you know you deserve someone that does care for you heart and sole never ever settle for less than that. You heard that saying "If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if it doesn’t it never was." apply it. Good luck.

THE MOM answered today:

Don’t do anything at all to put stress on the leg. I mean nothing. Follow doctor orders to the hilt. Baby it. Take your vitamins.Then about a week before you have to work it, start out a little each day to build back up and then yeah balls to the wall but realize that you could blow out all the way but you still went and had one of "the opportunities of your life". Be careful don’t show your opponent your weak spot. Good Luck!

THE MOM answered today:

If your in the state of TX you can call Advocacy, Inc at 1-800-252-9108. They are to protect and advocate for the legal rights of people with disabilities in Texas. Since it is funded through the US Congress they more than like have them in all states. Good luck.

THE MOM answered today:

Whoa, deep breath there….. ok if your father left you insurance you can find out by going to the county he passed in (lived in) and talk to his then attorney or if no attorney get on the computer and go to found money and link onto where he lived and enter his name and yours. Now the government cant be sending Millions to other countries because it does not have it to send. The companies that are trying to turn a profit for their stock holders are just doing their job the American way. If you want to make a difference well boycott the companies your talking about. In a calm way let others know the facts so they can choose to boycott or not also. That is also the American way.

THE MOM answered today:

Sometimes its better to give yourself space from someone you love rather than smother the love because of obligation and or guilt. I say this all the time you cant change them YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THEIR ACTIONS only your own. You can do what you have to do because you know you need to be stronger for yourself you cant help anyone if your dead or locked up in a padded cell. You could suggest some classes for your mother something she likes get on freecell or go to your community bulletin board, you cant hide behind your parents fear of being alone, its scary but needed to evolve. Promise what you can do call once every two days send a postcard everyday and a letter once a week e-mail every day just so they know you still love them you wont forget them and hey :) you gotta get out there to find the other parent for their future grandchildren don’t you?

THE MOM answered today:

Take the risk you only live once and that’s borrowed time you may fall but you get back up thank your creator your still alive and do it again. I once heard that on some peoples death bed you hear woulda, shoulda , coulda from them. Although you could do it all just set a time limit 5 years in high gear then move back to the settled down life.

THE MOM answered today:

You need to ask the question: What happens when you don’t have the chance let alone the choice to ever see or talk to one another again? Think about it now if they could care less about one another then all your doing is making yourself sick over something YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER . Love him, love her but respect them enough not to try to guilt them into something neither want. As to the rest more info? Does he have down time , friends to vent too? Do you? Does your daughter live at home? Time to be on her own? Lots of different sides to the truth as you all know it – old indian saying don’t judge another until you have walked in their moccasins - Try to see each others side the one that is not mature enough or even cares enough to try wee that the loser.

Harpuia answered today:

some one found the caps lock I think?…

Aaron Agassi answered today:

Is there truly no one more informed from whom to ask such advice, Jacko?

Bananabug answered today:

WELL U SHOULD CALL THE POILCE AND GET HIM ARESSTED os wheres ur family!!!!!!!

miss understood answered today:

You’re welcome. I actually watched the movie Precious last night and parts of it reminded me of my life so much. It had me crying. I don’t think I could ever find another movie that could touch me the way it did.

miss understood answered today:

You’re welcome. I actually watched the movie Precious last night and parts of it reminded me of my life so much. It had me crying. I don’t think I could ever find another movie that could touch me the way it did.

miss understood answered today:

Get her some of those nose strip thingies…

miss understood answered today:

Get her some of those nose strip thingies…
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