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vivian wrote on 12/25/2009:

why dose my life is like this ? when i am going to have good and happy life ? why everything bad keep happen to me ? i hate my parent so much and i will never forgive them for keep hit me and trying to kill me all the time , what i should do if i get hurt all the time by the people i loved ? god help me i cant take this anymore i am only 15 ? how do i live with all the pain ? plzz tell me how ?

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    Sylvan answered:

    You just do. You just keep moving forward. There isn’t anything special about it-you just keep putting one foot in front of the other, hour by hour, day by day, making the choices that will lead you to independence, and in time, you’ll be out of the situation you’re in. There will come a time in your life when you’re free. It’s hard to imagine now, because you’re 15, and independence is still years away, but I’ve been where you are, and I made it. You can too.

    Let yourself feel what you feel towards your parents. I’m proud of you for not trying to bury it-you’re stronger than I was at your age. I acknowledge what you’re going through and I believe in you. Grit your teeth, guard your heart, dig in your heels, and focus hard on your schooling-the better your education, the further away you will be able to get from your parents and the people who are hurting you when you reach maturity. If you can get a job, please do, and start saving money for a higher education. Save every penny you can, starting right now.

    You WILL make something of your life. Like I said, I believe in you.

    Sylvan

    wilbur horse answered:

    hope for a day when you are free …

    vivian answered:

    i live in syria :(

    Kris Mackey answered:

    Where do you live vivi?

    kanakaik answered:

    well on d basis f my experience i think u must stop complaining abt thngz wrong aroun u but take them in an optimistic way.. most importantly hav patience ‘cos at this age as u said u r 15,, 1 thing lacking is patience ’cos f whch all d problems arise.. n as far as getting hurt agn n agn is concernd so if u really want to end it up den i wld say dnt just get attached to ne1 aroun u ’cos in 2day’s world ppl r more practical dan emotional .. so if u want dT NO1 SHLD HURT UR FEELINGZ HAV CONTROL ON DEM.. learn how to categorise ppl in different ctgry n give dem only dat much importanc dats needed….. n lastly dont alwayz think dat watevr is happenin is not in ur favour….. drz alwayz d other side of d coin dat exist….

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