Life and Family

There’s only one thing I really want just one thing. I am not asking a lot so why can I have the self confident to be who i really want to be. Bad things keep happening to me and i’ve always been someone who thinks about other people. Bad things keep happening and I just can’t take it longer I want something good in my life. The one thing I want the most is to dance like it is my last day. So why do bad things keep happening to good people……..

salvo answered:

Bad things seem to happen to us when its all we focus on,I was doing it too in my question,Ime going to try focusing more on the good things that happen to me from know on and analize the bad things closer to see if there really as bad as they look.Theres allways something good in youre life and thats what should be focused on.I dont know how to dance wish i did,hang in there theres allways something good :-)

october answered:

You want to dance? Then dance!!

Bad things to happen to good people, but they happen to bad people too. And good things do happen to good people aswell. And the bad things come to test us, and you can get through them.

What is your one thing you want?? It may not just come to you, so why not go out and get it yourself??

outsider answered:

I know what you mean and I understand it. But I have been through enough bad times. It’s like I’m waiting for someone to rescue me…to be there for me..But no one is going to come I’m fooling myself. I want to live and be happy,it just seems so hard.

Peetz answered:

Well, maybe just maybe the bad things in life are learning experiences for you. Remember, we need to go thru the bad to get to the good side. Everything in life is like a scale…….BALANCE…..