Life and Family

What must one do when he realizes that the CHANCES of him ever finding a job he likes, a “normal” female companion whom which he could build a family with, enough money to pay for his families wants and needs let alone his own needs, sustained happiness and self confidents and a feeling of fulfillment, ARE very slim to non existent ?

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You reconsider this current realization, then realizing that life is what you make of it. If you wait for all of this to just happen to you, you’ll be waiting forever. If you put in the effort and perseverance needed to create a different life for yourself, your ‘chances’ will increase.