Confused one wrote on 12/22/2009:

Hello there HelpMe community, thanks for reading my questions and problem.
Well first of all I had a girlfriend for 5 month and we broke up a few days ago,
Now we’re from the same company of friends, and today we’re all going clubbing,
now I don’t really know how to act with her, I want to have fun but I don’t know how things will turn around, I don’t know even if she’ll say hello to me and then the whole party and the whole night it’d be a strange feeling, so what u guys are suggesting?
because we also didn’t brake up nicely…

BTW it’s kind of a big club here in Texas and a lot of men and women will be there, do you think she’ll try to get on my nerves by making out with other men trying to prove me something ?

I really dont know what to do, btw I’m younger than her, I’m 19 and she’s 20.

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    3 answers

    FMEE answered:

    The age thing is no problem if you would have said there was 20 years diffence, that would have been a problem. Some girls come and some go. this one does not sound like a keeper, let her go. Who has time for this game.

    IthilienDude answered:

    Just be yourself. If you don’t harbour any bad feelings against her, why start now? If you behave like yourself, and just let by-gones be by-gones, I’m sure you’ll just be fine.
    Besides, if she makes out with other guys that just goes to show how immature she is anyway… =.

    wilbur horse answered:

    act casual dude

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