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bob is spelled backwards asked on 02/07/2010:

why is it that we want what we cant have or shouldn’t have ?
iam in love with my friends girl friend and i got it bad in my head and in my heart how do i stop what iam feeling about her
but in a way i dont want it to stop
she did tell me if anything happened inbetween her and her boy friend she would go out with me
my heart is torn

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gemz answered:

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Thats life. We always want what we can’t or shouldn’t have. Its wether or not we choose to give in that determines who we are.

bob is spelled backwards answered:

lovesux2013 thanks it does some

bob is spelled backwards answered:

i have told her i love you many of times some times she even tells it back to me
and that i cant help my feeling towards her

Lovesux2013 answered:

Wow that sux. Um well I’m sorry to say this but it’s not gonna stop. You can’t turn off your feelings. Don’t become a rebound! Best you can do is tell her your not gonna be a rebound and tell her you have strong feelings for her and you don’t want to wait. Tell it like it is. Girls admire a guy who will share their feelings. And alot of guys think a girl knows they rele like them but most girls don’t becuase guys aren’t very obvious. Hope I helped!

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