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vivi asked 12/29/2009:

i hate life , i want to die , what the worth of living if i have no one love me for who i am or believe at me ? i am done with life for ever , god i am sorry if i end it my life

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Shared Knowledge answered:

My dearest vivi, There Will always be someone, who will love you. The first lesson that must be learned, is to love yourself first, be happy of your inner self, of who you are. everyone is unique in their own way. Thoughts brought on to you by the cirrcumstances that surround you, Will change. Remember This: your thoughts will bring back to you, what it is that you want. Good thoughts will bring to you good results. Bad thoughts will bring to you what you may really do not want.

You must then replace thoughts of what you do not want, and begin to constantly think of what it is that you truly desire.

If you are young, in high school, or living in a home where you do not feel loved, the world will change. Hang in there, changes Will Come when you discover how to THINK correctly.

Trog answered:

Vivi, you have the ability to end your own life. No one can really stop you but I beg you not make this choice. I don’t know anything about you or your circumstances, but I do know that the world needs you. You will do amazing things in your life and inspire others to do amazing things should you choose to! Speak to someone who is dying about all the things they wished they could do and then go do them! Play music, exercise, laugh out loud even if you don’t feel like laughing.
Do whatever you can to make it through one more day.

Don’t worry about Jesus or anyone else loving you. Just worry about finding one thing you like about yourself and then another. Get angry at all those people and things that ever made you doubt your unique and special qualities and then use that anger to get motivated to do something positive in your life.

If you think no one cares, you are wrong. I care! Please keep me posted on how you are doing!

frankieee answered:

jesus loves you

lostandconfused answered:

Vivi, I know how you feel. I am currently struggling with you. I often beg for death to creep upon me in my sleep, and feel disappointed when I wake up and I’m alive. But I have realized that we are alive for a reason. We each have a place in this world. I dont know what mine is yet, and neither do you. But everything happens for a reason, you are here for a reason. I want you to know I will go through this with you, you are not alone, and you will never be alone. Even in my darkest hour as I beg God for death, I know there is a different plan for me. Just push through this, and you will find your place in life. Fight for your life. I keep thinking I must fight for those who cant, cancer patients dying in hospital beds, homeless starving, I realize that this is my struggle as it is yours. but we can do this. Fight when others can, and as their lives fade, ours continue. I hope that you will find your place, and you will ultimatly find happiness. the best of luck to you. I will see you one day (Many years from now) on the other side.

jean280 answered:

“Come to me,all who are heavy-laden,and I will give you rest.Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me…For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” matthew 11:28-30 I have wanted to end my life every day for a very long time and when i try God stops me he believes in you and loves you and if you open your heart to God he will give you a reason to live God has a plan for you

LUCKY answered:

Look Vivi, we all have just one life in this life. Just one! If we end this life just to show someone that he or she didn’t care, that’s stupid. You know why? Because, that person(s) would change the things for you, if he knew how important they are. But now, it’s too late. You’re gone. There is no way things can be different. That’s why it’s stupid. The only place where things can be different than they really are, is on the earth, in this life! If we have two lives, I would say- Go ahead. That’s a good idea. Unfortunately, it’s not! This is not the option, not even the last option (there are no last options, anyway). You maybe think, to live and suffer is the hard thing to do. You are right – to live and suffer is the hard thing, for those who are condemned for live and suffer. But, hey, it’s not you. You are what you are, and who you are. I bet, at least 1000 people would like to be your friends right now. You sound so nice and friendly. You are a human been, a person, you are somebody. Let me hear you saying this, ok! Write something, speak to us, we don’t want to hear such a words from you any more – “I hate life…” You can’t hate life, there’s no such a thing – hating a life! You can hate some people, that’s ok, you can hate all people, well that’s ok too, but life?! Life belongs to you and he loves you, he doesn’t hate you. Why would you hate him?! Don’t let other people live and enjoy the life without you. Make them to envy you for you being self loving. Who the f… they think they are, to live this life and be what they are in this life, and smile like crazy and you not!? If I were a gay, for example, and ugly, and start thinking like you, I would go outside with the shirt on, saying – Yes, I am the ugly m….. f….. gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

friendsforever answered:

No dear dont say such those things be strong and live your life,love is not important at all, because nowadays it becomes just a beautifull lie,a game in other words,so,if u want someone to love u be sure that this dream is true God loves u and if not he wouldnt gives u the oportunity to live,dont let him down and love him as he loves u,all the people face the same problem as u do,for example me, i love someone from my heart and i did several things for him i stand by him every time he needs me,unfortunantly,i found out that it was just a game then i felt hopless and i thought that there is no life after him but i was wrong because he didnt deserve even to think of him,God is the best one who deserve our sacrifice.And dont forget we love u and we believe at u, so forget about those things and think about the beautifull things in ur life,live it as it is and be near from God. your friend.