456789798 asked 01/28/2010:
Do you think you would stay with a person if you’ve been together for 3 years and deeply in love but they told you they just turned the 18? And that’s the only thing they’ve lied about. Please explain your answer to yes or no.
4 answers
Kat1982uk answered:
I think a relationship based on secrets and lies can never work and trusting that person would be extremely difficult after this.
EllieZimn answered:
i mean if you love the person that’s great, and if you want to be with them despite their age, then stay with him/her. but, how does a person manage to hide their age from someone else without them noticing, especially when someone is so young. it’s not like a 50year old saying they’re 48 or something like that. plus three years is a long time…not that i’m saying you’re stupid or anything, i’m just curious how that works out
FMEE answered:
It depends on hou old you are? If you are older then 21 then you have some thinking to do because you can get into trouble with Jonny Law If you are younger then 21 you have to think if you can realy love someone that lied to you for three years.
beautifuldoom answered:
This is such a tough question. I think that I would have to sit down with them, and explain how hurt I was. Three years is such a long time to hold in this deep of a secret, that it would make me question other things in the relationship. Not only that, but also keep in mind how much your partner is going to change from eighteen to let’s say…twenty five. They’ll most likely have new ideals, new attitude toward life…ect. I would search deep in my soul, and decide if I truly think this person is someone I need to continue to dedicate my life to. See how you feel around your partner now, do you feel uncomfortable? Hard to look them in the eye without feeling like you were just barely told this lie? Do you honestly trust this person anymore? Think about these things, and go with your instincts. I cannot say yes, or no for sure because I don’t know exactly how you feel about the situation.