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serenityxx asked 02/13/2010:

Why do I always want to be alone? I’ll completely go out of my way in order to be in solitude constantly.

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9 answers

Arpia answered:

poke

DarkHeart answered:

thats not a bad thing, ido it all the time

serenityxx answered:

I am okay with it, but it gets to the extent that I am so willing to give up all my friendships, all the people who could ever be close to me. How can you become close with people when you always push them away? The answer is: you cannot. I’ll admit that I am scared. It’s just so much easier to be alone even if it comes with feeling lonely from time to time.

Serious answered:

afraid???

o_o cause i am

Allen Achrylik answered:

The only important thing is how you feel about the way you are. Does it bother you that you like to be alone so much, or does it leave you desiring more in your life? If you’re happy being alone, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Lots of more introverted people often prefer being alone

worldpeace21 answered:

i feel that way 2 serenityxx

JadeDC answered:

the reason is simple, you’re a loner at heart. and there ARE many loner’s out there, including me. i get major headaches in crowded areas like malls and WILL go crazy if i dont get sufficient “me” time. So join the loner’s club my friend, where meetings and gatherings are held – alone. =)

serenityxx answered:

hmm yeah, I have been in that club for a long while

456789798 answered:

Maybe you are having trust issues with people and don’t feel like being with them. It is OK sometimes and eventually the feeling will go away. Or maybe you just like being alone. If it doesn’t bother you and you like it then there is no problem. When I went to school I felt the same way. Not saying that you in school, Im just saying it is a phase your going through