question by FMEE

I hope nothing did happen,when you say suggestive just be sure if they really are and that youre not missinterperting them (i dont think you are but just be sure) and if you find that to be true you should ask if youre marriage is over or just in crisis,If you treat a woman right with the respect they deserve they hardly do stray so work out youre wrongs first (because we all do wrong) and adress them or if youre wife is just that tipe of person i would think maybe its time to move on…Best of luck to you.

Has anything developed from this situation yet?

Remember trust is very important in a relationship. With out that you have nothing. Start paying a little more time with her instead of worrying about what she might have not done. It’s funny how we let our minds wonder when we are in a crises. Romance her a little, be a friend to her that sounds like that is what she needs.

Chances are if you believe something is happening, chances are it is happening. Atleast you were man enough to face it and not brush it off. ANYWHOO my advice would be to get your friend drunk and ask him lol jk. Either get out now, or wait, because if something is happening or something did happen it will come out

above all else, guard your heart.

Your wife may be just letting a bit of steam off with your mate, try not to read to much into these texts. make your wife want you and have no reason to send texts to anyone else. You sound like a nise person dont just let go of your marrige fight for it.

it is…. it always is…. get out now before the marriage becomes destructive….

Out of respect for you your wife should not be doing that abd for what it is worth you need to have a sit down calm talk and let her know that it needs to stop as well with your friend you need to do the same thing he shouldn’t be texting are talking to your wife with out you around this is how feeling lead from one thing to another. I hope that nothing has happen but if it has nothing will ever be the same this will drive you crazy to the fullest.

I have to say I think that Niko’s advice is a bit extreme. Shot of that, I have no real advice of my own to offer.

They could be guilty simply because of the texts, but there’s no way of knowing if they’re telling the truth. I’d recommend not hanging out with your best friend anymore.
I’d also recommend leaving your wife, even if she hadn’t done anything yet it was just a matter of time. The intent to cheat is just as bad as the act. So unless you’ve done something equally bad that you can think of (in which case you guys should just go see a marriage counselor) , I’d hit the road.
It’s hard to let go of the big relationships in life, but sometimes we have to put ourselves through that because we know it’s the right thing in the long run.