FMEE asked 01/20/2010:
Is today the day I go? The wife went out to dinner with the girls from work on Friday. She left the house at 6 and got home at 11. During the night I got a few I love you text which she never does. Now that I look at the phone bill and I see her texting my ex best friend that she was sexting starting at 2 and ending at 6 and starting again at 11 and ending at 1. Gee am I the only one seeing a pattern?
2 answers
Allen Achrylik answered:
Yeah, I see it as well. How long have you been with her? You could try confronting her about it, maybe talking things through could help, maybe even seeing a marriage counselor.. I don’t know, maybe it is best to let her go and move on.
Do you have any children with her? Because if you do you should at least consider that
Dragonhearted answered:
Ouch, that’s a harsh find. It may just be stupid texting, often done for an ego-boost or a bit of affection – but it may be more. Sometimes all you can do is confront them on the matter and see what happens. Be prepared for all options however, if the worst happens, you don’t want to walk away and find yourself with no home or money if you can help it.