Vasie asked 03/10/2010:
I am soo depressed now, for the past ten years now my husband has been in and out of a job, we have been struggling for so long now, we are now facing eviction, i feel that i am just existing and not living, I dont know what to do. worst of all i dont have any friends to share my intimate problems. I actually i feel I am better of dead. I just dont know what to do i am at my wits end
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old dude answered:
I feel ya lady with my income being the only one for 2 years now I have often thought lately that my wife would be better off and less stressed if I died I have a huge insurance policy on myself so I could die happy knowing she was finally taken care of the way I wanted her to be. I am not depressed it is just logical to me.
your husband prolly feels the same way at times I am pretyy lucky after 27 years my wife and I are still best friends and talk about everything to each other.
all you can reallly do at this point is to make your husbands life as easy at home as possible.
I lost my home march of last year and it looks like I am soon to lose this one as well. rent went up, propane went up and my paycheck is going down do to a hike in my insurance rates I make good money and we still live on a shoestring budget and run out of even the bare essentials at times I am getting tired of living like this as well I am thinking of just getting an efficiency apartment and try to wait it out.