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question by Hani

Hani asked 07/04/2009:

I Think I Need a hand. i am 19 i hate the job im in but the times are no good to get another one. The other huge issue i have is that i am getting stood up by all my mates. i have organised heaps of holidays to go away just for a while and every time it gets called off at the last minute. i want to go to uni in a few years time but i feel i need a change until then and i have no idea how to do it.

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2 answers

Raerae answered:

Go it on your own. If your friends aren’t going to be there for you and show a pattern of desertion turn the table and leave them behind.

As for the job, seek further education, settle with what you have and be thankful you have it or continue looking for something better ^^

yetic answered:

hi.@19,u av alot of offers coming ur way(good and bad). At 19, you know right from wrong.
u know,loving whatever your hand finds to do is the best recipe for any job.
find a way to get involved in ur job.
to love ur job.
its impressive u wanna stay with the job.
exercise,listen to music,read motivational books, buildup yourself &love yourself.
then ur collegues will see u have a self worth and respect you for it.
keep up the dream of goin to d uni. D Best!