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MakeItQuickPLEASE asked 03/03/2010:

Im a married woman with an 2yr old and one on the way. my husband is too attached to his mom that when i ask him lets move.. he shoots me down so fast.. spends money so we cant move and says wants to help his mom buy a house…while we are in it….what do i do..i dont want to lose my baby due to stress

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4 answers

Natomie answered:

Why don’t you talk to his mother? Maybe she’ll be able to help you as well. Everyone else said the rest for me.

DisturbedLove answered:

Yeah like other people said, I think he needs to be reminded he chose to have a family and children, and his mother should come second.. (also already said) maybe you should suggest having your in law move in with you somewhere.. or have an apartment right next to yours.. I don’t really know, but you need to make sure that he knows.. He needs to take care of you and your family first… then his mom..

Grey Cloud answered:

He needs to remember he’s grown up with a wife and child he’s responsible for, mommy needs to come in after his wife and child. cut the apron strings. get mommy her very own apartment. and tell your husband to quit sucking his thumb.

Aaron Agassi answered:

Perhaps there is room for compromise: Perhaps an in-law apartment can be included in the renovation plan.