N.N. asked 01/29/2010:
I have a friend who’s a guy who I kinda like. Okay, I like a lot. He’s a mild mannered guy, and we’re able to have a good auld chat.
I’ve known him about a month now, and he invited me to visit him at his home. He said to “chill and watch a movie” which sounds cool, and I think it’d be a nice opportunity to spend some time with him. I’ve been to his home before, but I was with friends at the time, so I wasn’t alone, but for all intents and purposes I trust him. But I’ve heard some stories about guys just wanting to hop into bed, so in that case ine could say I’m being too trusting.
Am I just being waaay too paranoid, or do I actually have a cause to worry? =D
4 answers
Brandon Heat answered:
i wouldn’t say you’re being too paranoid. a lot of guys do wanna just hop into bed. and its hard to tell which ones are genuine. but i think u should hang with him and test it out. maybe he is one of the good guys and jus want to get to kno u better. but if u feel its the opposite don’t hesitate to let him kno u aren’t trying to rush things..unless u are lol..
unnatural answered:
you are kinda unclear. do you think that he might try and you? or do you just trust him enough that you know he won’t do anything unless you want to :) either way, there are guys like that. and it sounds like you haven’t known him that long. If you like him a lot, don’t have that night. (note: if you just want a one night stand don’t listen to the rest of this)that shows him that you are committed and that you refuse to be a booty call. im not saying don’t make out or anything thing like that, im just saying don’t go as far as second base. that way he gets that you are into him, but you want more than . don’t be so upset at him if he doesn’t try anything either. as in the words of the movie, “maybe he’s just not that into you” or maybe it’s his way of showing you that he want’s more than . GOOD LUCK!!!
Elkapan answered:
He wants to fuck you…. and you know he does.
Question is.
Do you want him to fuck you?