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question by Bananabug

Bananabug asked 03/11/2010:

IM IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND HE DOESNT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER SICE WE WERE 7 AND IM 13 AND IS 14

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3 answers

PerfectShadows answered:

you’re 13. i can assure you that you’re not in love.
you may think you are, but you’re not. its lust and hormones and projecting your desire to be in love on someone else.

FaLlEnAnGeL answered:

do u actually LOVE this person? if u know u do and they love u back…. go 4 it. if u love them so much that u cant b urself around them but udk if thay love u back… tell them but be prepared to loose a friend. is this LOVE really worth possibly loosing your best friend? and what if u do get 2gether and break up? will u still b friends or will it b 2 awkward? think about all this

october answered:

Haha harpuia. Wait… didn’t you change your name?? Um anyway… Bananabug… it’s difficult to say what you should do. You’re not going to like this but I would suggest you just stick it out and don’t do anything – act like nothing’s changed, because these feelings might not last that long and you really don’t want to lose your best friend because of it.