lostinthedark asked 03/11/2010:
Ok if you follow up on my last post its saying that i like this guy and he likes me but he hasnt completely moved on from his ex and thinks he isnt ready for a relationship when its been months since they broke up. alot of ppl say to try and be friends with him and see where that goes. but the problem is, is that ever since he broke up with me he’s been completely ignoring me like its awkward but its not. what am i supposed to do when this guy i really like keeps ignoring me when he sed he really likes me?
4 answers
Stef answered:
Wow I have the same problem except I’m the guy in your story.The best thing to do would be to ignore him yourself.If he really likes you then it’ll drive him crazy and he’ll come right back.
TRUEshark answered:
Look there is only one solution to your problem, LET HIM GO!!! You cant hold on to everything guys tell you, we lie to much for that. Ok so what he said he likes u, u know how many times i’ve said some b/s to get what i wanted. Maybe he do like you, maybe its more than physical, and maybe you jus smothering him, step off a lil and either he’ll come to you or u’ll probably find that you don like him as much as you thought. in short: CHILL!!!
THE MOM answered:
Well sounds like you may have been rebound although he may just need some space to think things through. What you cant do is dog yourself out if you float around or even follow him around well that wont do. I know its hard but you need to place him out of your “life” by his choice. I mean life goes on talk to friends go out carry on like you did before him when you run into him be polite say hey how are you? etc. keep on living in the now. If he cares about you he will be back if he doesn’t well honestly you know you deserve someone that does care for you heart and sole never ever settle for less than that. You heard that saying “If you love something set it free if it comes back its yours if it doesn’t it never was.” apply it. Good luck.