meurig jenkins asked 08/09/2010:
I am a straight male, and I fancy women, but I REALLY want to be a girl, as in wanting to have a sex change but still be attracted to girls. Is this normal and what does it mean?
6 answers
Nick Dudley answered:
i went through this as well. like mentioned below most guys go through it. it’s just a phase as we try to figure out our sexuality
Matt answered:
oh becouse i think haveing 2 girls haveing there girl on girl fun is sexy and hot it is xD hey if i could be a girl that be fun girl on girl xD but what ever i like being a guy I am also a straight male there nothing wrong on thinking and imagining that i would call this a hormones acting up xD there nothing wrong and you not the only one thinking this
confusedtyler answered:
from friends i have i learned its not really a want its you know your a girl but your trapped in a mans body or vise versa for ftms but really just sounds like your confused with your sexuality ive been there give it time but if you cant change the feelings that you are a girl then i say go for it cus it changed my friends lives for the better cus they are finally becoming happy with them i say anything that makes you happy and helps you becpme you go for it hun
Johann Niemand answered:
Its part of growing up. A lot of guys go through it, very few admit it. It will pass and girls (later women) will still be the greatest creation on earth. Just be patient with yourself. To disagree with SceneQueen, You may not be bi, since you show a standard reaction on the road to finding yourself.
Btw a bit of strenuous activity may help, make all the muscles work
another friend answered:
it means you’re kinda confused about your sexuality like many people are. (you can’t be a straight male who want’s to be a girl), It takes time to figure things out, especially when there are so many options to choose from, and so little guidance.
my advice would be to hang back a bit and see how things change as you grow. As a christian, I believe there are good choices and bad choices you can make, so I caution you to ask God to guide you into who you really are and follow the leading of your conscience, but of course, its up to you.
SceneQueen Is Me answered:
it means you want to be bi. because i heard the change was expensive. being bi is VERY normal, and everyone’s being bi, so its ok! :)