bob is spelled backwards asked 08/17/2010:
well lets start by saying i fell head over heels in love with this girl problem is that iam friends with her boyfriend and his mom has told me that she wants me but i cant i too in love i would do anything for this girl she makes me smile & laugh i injoy very much being around her
i also have a girlfriend that i only see once in a blue moon because she is taking care of her mother
anyone have any sugestions on what i should do ?
4 answers
bob is spelled backwards answered:
yes i do kinda still love my current g/f in a way
we been togeather a long time
and i think my friend allready knows how i feel about his girl because we hug all the time he has heard us say i love you to each other and iam perty sure he has saw us kiss (little peck on the lips)
very true about the grass but i could see myself married to this girl i could never see myself married to my current g/f
another friend answered:
u need to sort out everything, i was trying to follow all the feelings you’ve got going on there, but this is going to be a few steps to get it all straight.
First- do you still love your current gf? if yes, then drop the thoughts of the other girl, if not, let ur girl go before you do anything else.
Second- once you’ve dropped ur girlfriend, then talk to your friend and tell him you like his girl, see what he says.
third- then talk to the girl and see what she feels.
U gotta remember that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, but when you get their its the same as the grass you’ve been eating. Humans always want what they don’t have instead of enjoying what they got so you have to be careful of your emotions.
Remember, at one time you were head over heels for the girl you got now….
bob is spelled backwards answered:
Elli i feel if i do that i would end up walking away alone with everyone pissed off at me
Elli answered:
be open about it. You have somehow found yourself in a situation where whatever you chose to do is not such a great option. You either hurt your friend and your girlfriend or you hurt yourself. The honest way to go about it and maybe not come out of it as a complete jerk is by doing something extremely difficult. Get the people involved together and tell them. Then see what happens. That way at least you’ve tried to be fair to all.