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very depressed and lonely.

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fainez – 08/17/2010

not exactly much of a question just a very strange dream, that i found interesting, and it might make other people laugh at how weird it is. this is a transcript of my telling it to a friend. [03:02] Fainez: so [03:02] Fainez: yeah i was...

2 answers, latest by another friend: lol, ur dreams sound like mineonly Ive had dreams that told the future. I used to dream about being in the army before I ever thought of joining. . dreams are supposed to be the spirits/minds way of sorting through things so different pa...

fainez – 08/15/2010

whats a good way to rid yourself of suicidal thoughts safely

2 answers, latest by DeadInTheWater: I worked in the morgue doing autopsies for about a month. In that time I saw murders, suicides, overdoses, accidents, and even babies killed by their own parents. I couldnt handle it after that, but i tell you nothing made me feel more a...

fainez – 08/04/2010

:( so lately i keep having dreams where different friends of mine (only girls actually) keep dying in car crashes. sometimes they will call me for help, and ill get there too late, sometimes im with them and they die in my arms I know th...

2 answers, latest by Jeremy Richins: I can understand how it could b messing with you, I have gone through the same thing in the past and still do a little bit now. Dreams can mean a lot of things. A dream can simply b your brain keeping itself busy while you sleep; they co...

fainez – 08/04/2010

Sometimes ive found I wanted someone to talk to late at night and this site as helped. however it can be nicer to talk to someone via instant message when you really need to air things out. so in an effort to make this world a more carin...

fainez – 07/04/2010

Im in love with two girls both of which dont have the same feelings for me. normally its ok and as long as i get to see them and be close friends i feel find. but one of them just got a boyfriend and i feel horribly jealous and sick at t...

2 answers, latest by deltic1: Lots of people have those feelings, girls as well as boys. Now that she has a boyfriend it may not be the time to tell her, but if/when they split up give her some time to get over the break up, then tell her that you have feelings for h...

fainez – 06/13/2010

so i was at a party with the lesbian girl that i like, and im sure most of you have heard about from my other posts. this was the first time i have seen her in close to 2 weeks because she works so much, and never seems to be free. curre...

4 answers, latest by Harpuia: well it sounds pretty much like ignoring to me.

fainez – 06/09/2010

Whats the best way to get over someone (in this case a girl) that has no interest in you other than a friend?

9 answers, latest by BobbyBB: well the two obvious choices are: find the effort to pursue her and make her like you, or find a way to let her go. I find the latter is the hardest to grip, but its so surprising how going out and meeting new people can help you move on...

fainez – 06/07/2010

I have alot of dreams, and unlike most people i seem to remember them most of the time. In my dreams im normally happy. some girl i liked in the past has turned around and seen me for what i am and decided she wants to be with me. or my ...

2 answers, latest by zaza: Hey ! Dreams interpret our feelings and well if you having these dreams it means you are insecure in your life and want to change your past . The friends denote the lonliness in your life and the conversations about supportive and making...

fainez – 06/06/2010

I have been severely depressed for over two years now. I feel alone even around what friends i do have. i tend to go through friends in cycles losing old ones, and then trying to replace the holes with whatever new ones i can find. I fee...

6 answers, latest by Crystal Violet Stain: You are describing my life, and I feel your pain. The best way I can deal with it is trying to savor every remotely happy moment in my life, magnify it, prolong it, then reflect on it for as long as possible before things start to suck ...

fainez – 06/06/2010

i think im in love with a lesbian. Im male. fuck

4 answers, latest by First Last: well, being male or being lesbian or whatever is NOT the issue. At the end of the day your concern is the age old problem that your in love alone. You must move on.

answers by fainez

08/17/2010
it depends if the people your falling in love with feel the same way. personally i hate falling for someone, cause they very rarely feel the same way about me.

08/17/2010
never let the fear of never finding another person keep you in a relationship. there is always more people out there, and if you don't he is right for you then you are wasting time that could be spent letting others find you.

08/15/2010
no.

08/05/2010
there is no shame in trying to get help for issues like this, your trying to better yourself and anyone who matters would want to help you do that and / or be proud of you. it might be hard to talk about but keeping it to yourself and bottled up i...

08/05/2010
im not a parent, but im 20. first off what kind of a car is it, cause that has alot to do with points you can make. how much does it cost in total, are u getting a loan for the rest of it, do you have a job and if so how much do u make / how many ...

08/04/2010
a sin is more of a point of view, many people will tell you it is a sin, many people will tell you it isn't. do you think your a bad person because you have these feelings of love for another person? I would say of course not, but it's really up t...

06/14/2010
if i talk to her its just going to piss her off because she will say that she wasnt ignoring me.

06/11/2010
is there anything thats tying you down there other than just the low cost of living? cause there is plenty of cheap places to live that aren't a complete bore. Maybe you should start looking online at places you could move to that would be better ...

06/11/2010
you should do your best to decide if you are depressed because of your career choice, or for another reason. If you don't like being a nurse then don't do it, your not going to magically start enjoying it.

06/10/2010
do you feel like its working?

06/09/2010
Yeah I would just try and ignore her as much as you can and not make a scene out of it

06/09/2010
I've never thought about it but yeah, the shy guys are normally the nicer ones. or perhaps I should say that almost all "bad guy" are aggressive and will try to attract as many women as possible.

06/09/2010
lol well how is your best guy friend suppose to know if you like them back bethany? i think thats kinda unfair. and yeah true dat jacob lol, true dat

06/07/2010
yeah i couldn't figure out how to actually upload a picture after u selected it

06/07/2010
please don't try to commit suicide or hurt yourself. It may seem like the only option or the only way out, but you gotta remember that life is like a roller coaster, it has ups and downs and you don't wanna miss out on all the stuff that your goin...

06/07/2010
being around someone who used to be your close friend isn't a fun or easy thing to do. but it's better to find out that those people aren't who you think they are and remove them or reduce their importance in your life. Look at the bright side,...

06/07/2010
get your BF to buy condoms at whatever the local stores are around you. would be CVS and stuff like that for me. it's easier to have a safe option around then to just try and ignore your hormones. hell i actually noticed that the Trojan brand has ...

06/07/2010
Try not to dwell on the things that are bothering you, which is hard i know. try to eat as much as you can manage even though you don't really feel hungry, you will feel slightly better. and if you can manage it, go for a jog or a walk. the act...

06/06/2010
she has told me she is a lesbian. I doubt i've ever actually been in love, but "being in love" at least in my opinion is a tricky term and hard to define. I have mixed feelings for her, we are close friend's and I know i care about her a lot, a...

06/06/2010
that's whats so frustrating... most of the time I really just don't know what is bothering me, or why I feel sad. I like movies.. i'm a sports fan although i don't play anything. I write poems, but not many people really know about that, and th...

06/06/2010
well more than one person have given me that answer actually. but they were all pretty good friends. I always struggle with not "bitching" to people and just being a burden and no fun to talk to, and not being able to deal with it myself. I see...