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12/21/2011
Take time to think about your feelings, is it just a phase or is it real? If there are children involved you need to think about their needs first and foremost. If you are sure that you have a problem talk to your wife, seek help to try to rekindl...

12/21/2011
It isn't that easy to answer, except to say that you will know. It isn't just that butterfly feeling inside you it is something much stronger, a confidence and trust in the other person and a certainty that you are meant to be together.

12/21/2011
Hi Jessica. People do care honestly, but sometimes it take them a while to notice because they are busy with other things.

12/21/2011
We are here whenever you need to talk.

12/21/2011
Not now and perhaps not ever. He needs a clear message that he can not control you and if you are friends he will keep on pushing the boundaries.

12/17/2011
You sound very wise and very strong, I know that your situation must be terribly hard but well done for the way you have handled it so far. I understand why you feel unable to talk to your friends about this, feel free to talk to us as often as yo...

12/17/2011
Pleas go and talk to your doctor, from what you say about your enthusiasms, unrealistic aspirations, inability to stick to anything and difficulty maintaining friendships I seriously wonder if you may have a mental health problem. You really shoul...

12/16/2011
Just be yourself, you will find that there are other people who feel the way you do, I have always been a bit like that myself. Just accept yourself as you are.

12/16/2011
This has nothing to do with masturbating so don't worry about that. It happens to lots of men but it does usually get better and the men learn to last a little longer.

12/15/2011
Look at it as a learning curve, it isn't the mistakes we make that matter it is what we learn from them. You can't change the past but you are older and wiser now so you can make sure that you don't make the same mistakes again.

12/13/2011
Hurt, you are right to insist that these things are not hidden. In almost every case once a cheat always a cheat, so keep this in mind and be very clear with yourself about your limits as far as this relationship goes.

12/13/2011
Sometimes telling the truth plain and simple is the best way, such as 'I don't feel the same way, I'm sorry' or 'I feel hurt that you have moved away from me' or I'm sorry I didn't mean that to happen'.

12/12/2011
Are you overweight? If not then it may be that you have a hormone imbalance, you should get a check up with your doctor.

12/12/2011
Long term health problems can put a huge burden on a relationship. Ask the people involved in your girlfriends treatment if there is a support/counselling service for people in your situation.

12/11/2011
Trust your heart. You need someone who will care about your emotional needs as well as as your physical and practical needs.

12/11/2011
I am sorry to be blunt, but the trust in your relationship has already been broken. If you can't trust him do you really want to stay with him?

12/11/2011
It is not as unusual as you think to feel the way you do. Give yourself time to work out exactly how you feel and what you want. For some young women this is just a phase, but it sounds as if you ma be bisexual. That is not such a bad thing, there...

12/10/2011
We all need friends, they may not all be for life but they enrich and give meaning to our lives.

12/10/2011
Do you need to do anything? If he is your ex you have no right to say who he should or should not go out with or spend time with.

12/10/2011
You have a right to be yourself whatever your sexual orientation and if your religion can't accept that you have a stark choice. Either live a lie all your life to keep your church elders happy or be yourself and recognise that your religion is wr...

12/10/2011
Mums worry about almost everything and sometimes they get it wrong and project their issues onto their children. Has your mum ever had weight problems? It may be that she knows how bad it made her feel and she wants you to avoid that. Or maybe she...

12/08/2011
You need to get some help urgently. Never allow your wife to hit you again, don't hit back but call the police and press charges. It may be the only way to make her face her problems and get help.

12/08/2011
It is good advice to see your doctor, but also try to find some help with anger management.

12/08/2011
I am not sure that it is always possible to predict who will be most successful. I don't think it is always the people who do best at school, I think it is abut determination and about being willing to put in a lot of time and effort.

12/08/2011
You tackle the issues gradually. Make yourself more employable by doing voluntary work and if possible by getting some training. Make a big effort to be friendly that is the first step towards making friends. Most important of all don't give up, i...

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