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justafriend – 11/21/2010

im pregnant and have no energy to do anything,think i am depressed.havent been to church since oct. all i wanna do is sleep and eat.is this normal?

4 answers, latest by Hermit Gurl: you dont need some bricks to find god!!! ;)

justafriend – 10/22/2010

sigh i am 1 month pregnant, still at university. no money.i mean once ure a student, ure broke. have been engaged for a yr. wanted to get married next yr due to finance.looks like the process has to speed up.now im thinking of taking a y...

3 answers, latest by d j: justafriend, first, if your church does not show love and compassion over your situation then you MUST find a new church. Do not be afraid, if Christ is in them then they will love you and show you that they love you. Although your body ...

justafriend – 08/16/2010

my spiritually is no longer the same. i feel drained. i am no longer motivated to do the things of God. i have given into sex. i mean i try sometimes to step up my spirituallity buh its like a circle, it goes back to where i began. what ...

4 answers, latest by Alan Kirk: Try looking at some alternative religious/theological ideas. I would recommend Buddhism or Zen and Taoism. Try typing in Alan Watts into YouTube, he was a very clever and interesting man. I do not think you should convert or anything lik...

justafriend – 06/20/2010

I am a baptised christian, engaged to be married next yr. me and my fiance were both virgins and we gave in. now sex has become part of our life; were not married yet, its seems so hard to stop. we tried too soo many times but still end ...

6 answers, latest by justafriend: thnks soo much another friend. the reason y were not married is because we lack the finance to do so. ure advice about the 30 minute marriage is good.but or situation is a bit complex. well at least i think it is. i am still at skool b...

justafriend – 12/21/2009

I have difficulty being consistent and committed. I start something then i eventualy stop.For example, i want to keep fit. I tried doing exercise every morning and eating for vegs, then i stopped completely and went back to square one. ...

4 answers, latest by justafriend: hmm good idea lava :)

answers by justafriend

09/12/2010
ok this is the best way. eat healthy, exercise, be positive minded, help others, occupy ureself with clubs, hikes etc..time will go by so fast that it wud seem short.live a life so content and eventually your life will be taken away with old age.n...

09/02/2010
i believ he is cheating. its seems like he doesnt want to hang out or spend time with u. if he loves u, he wud want to spend much tie. tell him to come out clean and be honest. ask him if he is being faithful and if he wants to continue the relati...

08/17/2010
explain to him how u feel.if ure not happy then th relationship wont work.tell him its not his fault, its notabout him. u jus dont think u are ready for any relationship cause u have prioities that take up alot of time and effort. u wanna concentr...

08/16/2010
i think the reaason she lost interest in sex is because if a lack of self confidence, it could be that she is depressed since she is not satisfied with her image. if she wants to lose weight and look good, maybe u shud encourage her to join the gy...

08/16/2010
dont, you may just regret.youre confused cause youre conscience is telling you not to, your faith is your foundation for your thoughts. thus there is a battle between desire(lust) and good morals

08/11/2010
thnks soo much another friend. the reason y we're not married is because we lack the finance to do so. ure advice about the 30 minute marriage is good.but or situation is a bit complex. well at least i think it is. i am still at skool but he is ...

06/22/2010
See according to the bible, fornication is , as all other sins, not an act with which God is pleased. i love my fiance yes, but are we doing the will of God?

04/29/2010
first of all, i belive quiting smoking and drinking is a goo start. second, i think u shud move on with ure life. i believe the girl needs some space and some time. she lost trust in you and thus needs time to heal etc.forcing ureself on her etc a...

03/09/2010
go check the doc, do urinate frequently? burning when urinating?

03/09/2010
hey, the best thing to do is go out there and socialise. Make many friends, females. by being friends, the girls will see who u really are. be ureself. eventually after being friends, which ever girl ure inteested wth, ask her out. by that time sh...

03/09/2010
Dont go reseaching about the surgery. if u do, be very careful wut websites u go to.some will only get u scared. ask ure doctor more info aboout the surgery and success rates. be positive. if are christian or any other denomination, pray to ure g...

03/09/2010
it's called nocturnal emmission and its quite natural. just a way of getting rid of excess sperm. sperm is continually produced so wuts there needs to release to make way for more. thinking about sex all the time is natural. its quite prevalent no...

02/07/2010
First of all you need to forgive yourself and move on about what happened with ure little sister. You knwo it's wrong and u regret so that's the first step. Now u have to forgive ureself and move on. Know one is perfect. I think you should also a...

02/07/2010
hmm good idea lava :)

02/06/2010
stop calling and talking to her for a while. You know it's wrong then dont get ureself involvd. I cud see that a huge bomb is about to explode. Get her out of ure mind and help her get out of ure mind as more than jst friends. U can only help her...

02/06/2010
then just be his friend. Most likely she will hurt him again and the cycle will commence all over. Just be there for him and ewncourage him to do the right thing and to be wise. Encourage him not to allow some one to use him as a door mat etc he n...

02/06/2010
GO TO THE DENTIST . HE/SHE WILL ADVISE U ABOUT WUT NEXT TO DO

01/30/2010
wow... y dont u BOTH see the doctor TOGTHER... then u BOTH can explain what yall feeling etc .. this question can only be PROPERLY answered by a health prof. ALL URE FEARS WILL BE PUT TO REST

01/30/2010
encourage her to hmble herself and go to a rehab centre. She has to fix her life ad get it in order

01/30/2010
i agree with seriously alone. Stop taking his calls. Stop giving him money. Let him learn to be a man

01/23/2010
GOD never forgets about us. Sometimes he is unable to work in ure life because you want to have total control and do what you want. u need to have faith in him . God does come through. trust me, i have experienced it for myself.If you surrender a...

01/23/2010
that's not uncommon. Many of my friends kissed after 19.Infact my boyfriend's first kiss was 21. i did it lol. My first kiss was 18

01/22/2010
accept who u are. build ure confidence, get the right girl who would love you for who u are and not ure penis. Get married to her and then have a wonderful sex life

01/22/2010
Well its gonna be hard but the best thing to do right now is tell him the truth. It's true that u shudnt have gone with the man but HE SHOULDNT HAVE SLEPT WITH YOU.IT'S RAPE. Speak with ure bf about what u shud do. Cant you bring a charge against ...

01/21/2010
Well i can give u advice. It will be tough but ure daughters can get a part time job. I am also at univ and i do some work here and there like waitress and even tutoring for high school students. They will have to learn to balance their time. I Al...