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I am a crazy, definitely not normal, unique, adventurous teenager just trying to make it out of the adolescence roller coaster in one piece.

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Pipster – 08/04/2011

My self-esteem has really dropped lately. I look at myself in the mirror and im just dumbfounded. I have a set image of what i look like in my mind, and to me that image is pretty and unique. I look at myself and i just dont recognize my...

5 answers, latest by viki pliarhu: blame the society and the mediaforyr selfimmage.but the truth is beautiful piople get better in life.it has been scientifically proven.sadbut true.i myself am the middle road and had my shere of low self esteem based on my body immage

Pipster – 05/23/2011

My mother went on vacation for a week and came back with a flawless forehead free of the once existent wrinkles. I honestly think that she got botox. Im almost positive of it! Shes talked about it before and she knows im pretty against p...

4 answers, latest by viki pliarhu: dont mess with yr mothers life.and she shouldnt in yrs.she wants to be still beautiful and its her way to achieve this.its not yr life.dont judge her.stop this this minute.just tell her she looks beautiful and that u approve whatever she...

Pipster – 12/11/2010

Im scared that i might be depressed. My birthday is in four days, and im just scared. I dont want to feel so terrible on my birthday. Ive been holding so many secrets from my friends (like about my dads big radiation/chemo treatments) an...

3 answers, latest by Pipster: Thanks Everyone! My birthday has passed, but i really felt like i embraced everyones love. It felt good to be cared about. I got a little upset at a few points throughout the day, but i rebounded back quickly! Thanks again!

Pipster – 11/09/2010

Sometimes i just feel so desperate for love. It is all around me, yet i cant seem to grasp it. I pity myself sometimes, because of my foolish dreams and ridiculous wishes. But it has come to the point that only my imagination is satisfyi...

4 answers, latest by peacegirl delacour: im the exact same why. in fact i think all teenagers are like that. so dont worry that ure the only way who thinks like that bascially every teenager thinks like that.best of luck to ya!

Pipster – 09/25/2010

I want to start making closer guy friends. I have many male friends, but i actually want to start hanging out with them. Any ideas of how i can establish that sort of friendship milestone? I just want to hang out with them, but i feel l...

3 answers, latest by Varun Jyoti Baruah: Actually thats the same case with boys too(well,sometimes),but it really doesnt matter if you are friends. After all they dont think bad about you or something cause if they did,they wouldnt have been your friends. All you need to do is ...

Pipster – 09/01/2010

What is a good way to manage anxiety/stress? I feel the need to organize my life, which does seem to help (when i fill up to-do lists and calendars), but sometimes im not sure if it is enough. What do you do to help relieve stress and an...

Marina B answered: When I feel like my stress could take over my life, I go out for a good hours walk. I just look up into the sky and put my problems into perspective with the world. This sounds really cheesy, but I sometimes compare myself to all the com...

Pipster – 08/31/2010

Im worried that im hung up on some guy and that i cant let him go. He was just a major crush in my life, and im at the point where i feel like it is dragging me down. But if i drop the weight, i will feel empty. So far, ive only been abl...

cee cee answered: U r lacking something in yourself, i am there w u not talking down 2 u. We hang on to attention even if its negative. Fix urself and by that i mean focus on making everything good for u instead of another man. It works it has its hard mo...

Pipster – 08/15/2010

How can i slowly expose myself as a women to my parents? Im exploring my sexuality as a natural given right, but they dont seem very ready to accept that. I was supposed to go for a run today, but i ran into an friendly acquaintance, who...

3 answers, latest by another friend: I dont know how open your parents are to conversation, but can you sit down with them and talk about some different rules/agreements to make? It make take some perserverance on your part. ask your parents what they were like as teenagers...

Pipster – 06/28/2010

In about a week, im going off to an arts program upstate. Im looking for a summer fling for the month that im there. Any suggestions as to how i can start a fling with a guy? Im sorta new to summer relationships with new people. Do you h...

2 answers, latest by Hallie Lohan: Frankly Im afraid of S.T.D.s I dont want anything!!! Maybe, Im to tit With my legs. I am as normal as anyone I know but sex for me is not a sport it Is a expression of love. So is a Kiss. and a I love you. It means something to me anyway...

Pipster – 06/03/2010

What are the circumstances of when a guy enters an open relationship? Are they just friends with benefits or what? If you have guessed, ive totally fallen for a guy who just entered an open relationship. I know he is interested in me, bu...

Elli answered: It totally depends on what you want for yourself. If you want to make sure you dont get hurt or used stay away from him until he sorts himself out and becomes a bit more responsible. If on the other hand you want to get involved in serio...

answers by Pipster

08/05/2011
Elli, I wish I could gave you a hug right now. That was honestly the perfect pep talk for me. Thank you. During the past six months, I've been really conscious of my eating habits and sleeping habits. They have definitely improved! But when summer...

05/20/2011
Well maybe your mother needs to be enlightened through personal experience. Maybe she just settled on that belief because she has never encountered a bisexual person. Maybe you can reconnect with your bisexual friend and ask about her experiences ...

04/29/2011
Good for you! I hope your life continues to get better and that you see more of the beauty that awaits you.

04/08/2011
Music is definitely a good conversation starter. Just about EVERYONE has some type of musical preference, and whether or not you have the same taste it is a good way to get talking. Just remember that it is okay to disagree.

04/04/2011
Well don't stop drumming to your own beat! It is good that you have a personality that strays from the people around you, it sets you apart! If making friends in school is troublesome, then you should start a club or join something outside of scho...

03/23/2011
Maybe you could take him out on a date or something romantic that doesn't necessarily need sex in return. You could do something for him just to make him happy and then in the near future he would want to do the same for you. Don't worry about the...

02/04/2011
Well i don't think there is one solid definition of love. It is just another one of our emotions, but one that we prioritize over the others. Love could just be happiness in disguise as another name! It doesn't have to be with a person; it could b...

01/28/2011
Well you can let it linger, and allow thoughts of her to always be in your heart. Or you could have some sort of event (like writing a note in a bottle and dropping it in a river/lake/ocean or burning a letter expressing all of your feelings and r...

12/17/2010
Thanks Everyone! My birthday has passed, but i really felt like i embraced everyones love. It felt good to be cared about. I got a little upset at a few points throughout the day, but i rebounded back quickly! Thanks again!

12/12/2010
I'm sure that there are plenty of girls in your position too! But look at it on the bright side, all the local guys have probably been going to school with the same boring old girls since middle school. This puts you at a great advantage because y...

12/11/2010
I've felt like that before. I though "hey why don't i give it a shot, maybe it might actually help me!" but i ended up ignoring this little voice in my head. Why do you want to be hungry all the time? Maybe you can't do it for a reason, maybe its ...

11/12/2010
sounds like a good match! Get creative. Send little poem/haikus in class. You might want to make them light, not to deep, and maybe even funny! Be playful. Ask him in person (or through notes) who is favorite author/poet is? Bring small chat to a ...

11/11/2010
Wow, thanks! You are so optimistic and it has really got to me. I feel adventurous and daring, or at least i want to be. That is how i want to live; bold, positive, honest, and happy. It must be the best way to succeed in my life. Thanks, really. :)

11/07/2010
I definitely think that reading her chats is sort of dancing on the line of invading her privacy and just checking up on her. It's really great that you are showing interest in helping your daughter and involving yourself in her life. 14 definitel...

11/07/2010
Sounds like you might need to confront her. It may not solve all your problems, but maybe exclaiming some of these feelings directly and verbally, your friend might start thinking. Does your boyfriend know? Maybe he could put in a word or two to h...

11/07/2010
It's totally natural to feel this way about your friend. Sometimes we look at the people around us in a new light, and things never seem the same. But sometimes it is just a phase in our life, it will pass by as time comes at us. You can try to ge...

10/24/2010
I think that if you feel happy with him and you are trusting then go for it. If you have any worries, then you can always wait...there is no life or death decision here, and you've got all the time in the world to decide and act up it. If you fee...

09/26/2010
Like most of us, we just keep dreaming. Keep dreaming of better girls, better dating, better opportunities. They will come, of course, but it doesn't mean we recognize them. Now those previous statements being negative, the posative about this all...

09/25/2010
Well she must have the wrong sort of idea to be like her family in that sort of way. You should really tell her how worried you are for her. Tell her that it is (or could) really deteriorate your friendship and you really want her to stop. Tell he...

09/06/2010
I wish i could figure that out too! Where on earth did they go?!? (or do they even exist anymore?). Drinking and Smoking has become a young person epidemic!

06/29/2010
Well it seems that you have not established your relationship with him clearly. And i don't mean that you have not done this, but more that it just never happened so far between either of you. It sounds like there might be a more romantic relation...

06/29/2010
I've been there a few times before with guys. It is so hard to forget guys who have had a large impact on us emotionally. Sometimes it helps to have another boy in your life to distract your mind from him. But don't force yourself to like some guy...

06/29/2010
This is totally normal. Sometimes i fantasize about girls and what not, but it is very normal for anyone to think about the same sex. Sometimes it is easier to envision ourselves experimenting with the same sex because we are more familiar with th...

06/23/2010
Well you can wait until you are 18 to alter your body with any piercing or stretching. OR you can make a proposition with your parents. Maybe if you get all A's by half of the year or the end of the year, you can get your lip pierced. And maybe if...

06/23/2010
First off, delete the photo that he sent you if it is in any way sexual. There are major legal issues where you could end up as a registered sex offender or even in jail! So just delete that as soon as possible. Sexting isn't necessarily illegal,...