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I am determined to go ahead, but am always drawn back anyway.

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Ani Lava – 02/01/2010

I know this is common, but the extent to which I am procrastinating is extreme. I really need to work on it, and Ive read loads of articles, and get all the external help I could get. Problem is I cant seem to put them into effect. How d...

5 answers, latest by Ani Lava: thank you roland and snowflake. ive often tried to do what snowflake has #x000A;suggested. but the problem

Ani Lava – 02/01/2010

How can I cope with and quickly fall out of liking my best friend too much? Especially when our relationship itself is a bit.destructive..

3 answers, latest by Ani Lava: its not physical. its completely emotional. hes a sweetheart if you see beneath the depths of his stoi

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02/09/2010
figure out what u want! ur gf or ur best friend's gf. if ur willing to wait for ur gf. then for get about ur lust. if ur not. then it's best that u talk to ur gf and contemplate a breakup. she doesnt deserve to be strung along in a dead relationsh...

02/09/2010
i agree with 4philosophicideot. give it some time. keep talking. get to know each other more. as william paul says, he may just be the right 1 for u. but u need to stay rational like you have been so far as well. invite him over sometime. and see ...

02/07/2010
i have the exact same problem i guess. i've started this new method where i'm just not thinking about tomorrow. do as much as i can today. we live only in the present really. so might as well make the most of it. exercise, work, study, today. do...

02/07/2010
Are you talking about an online bf? The thing with online relationships, alot of people treat it as a joke. you can never really believe them unless you take the proper measures. Now, I don't mean to sound like a prat or too nosy, but when i becam...

02/07/2010
find your inner strength. like for william, its so that right wins. if you lose, no one else will. you lose. game over. would you rather give up, just so that you could relax? believe me, the relaxation will never come. they'll just bowl you over,...

02/07/2010
First of all, have they told you that: 1) They hate you? 2) They want you to leave? if they haven't you may want to talk to them about it. or even to a close relative or guardian other then ur parents. sometimes adults need to be set straig...

02/07/2010
who are you talking about? who is this "he"?

02/07/2010
i think you need to ask yourself why you don't get along with him. maybe if you tell us that, we can help. being a person who can't stand the sight of her father, i think i can recommend a few things to you: 1) accept the fact that he's not goi...

02/07/2010
what was this average degree? nothing is average really unless you feel that way about it. even if this is, as you call, average, you have all the time in the world to pursue something which doesn't give you a complex. if you love what you did...

02/07/2010
I think you need to clear this for yourself. You need to choose. You can either ask now, or wait until something like this happens again. I think that if you wait for a second time, then you can actually refer back to both incidences. Say that you...

02/07/2010
because we feel the need to conceal. we're scared of what the consequences will be if we show everything. without mystery, there is no point in living your whole life through. if you knew everything from before, you wouldn't ever really enjoy it....

02/07/2010
I completely understand. a few years back i really had no opinion and would have probably freaked out at the idea, only because it was unfamiliar, but my best guy friend is gay, so now i think its fairly natural for some1, if they are homosexual, ...

02/07/2010
i have no idea but this is an interesting question. now i want to know as well!

02/07/2010
i think you need to subtly mention how ur feeling to ur best friend. "has something happened between us? did i offend you in some way? because i feel that we've drifted apart somehow. call me paranoid, but i feel like something is wrong." see ...

02/07/2010
its not physical. it's completely emotional. he's a sweetheart if you see beneath the depths of his stoic character. i just cant handle the dramatics and hurtful comments he throws at me sometimes. he's often dominating, puts me down with vario...

02/03/2010
thank you roland and snowflake. i've often tried to do what snowflake has suggested. but the problem is that i've got too much on my plate. emotionally, i can't cope with all that's going on, and the workload itself wouldn't be a problem if ...

02/01/2010
i tell myself that all the time. it didn't work. :(

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