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Steve0074 – 12/18/2009

In my job I have to communicate with people all the time and this is becoming a big problem for me. A couple of years ago I had time off with stress and since then I struggle along and talking to people In order to get them to do things ...

3 answers, latest by wilbur horse: really maybe you need to look for something that you would enjoy doing more than the job you have now ..

Steve0074 – 11/13/2009

I need to lose weight. Lets see what advice people have. . I have just seen some recent photos taken of myself and quite honestly I was embarressed by how fat I have become. I have lost over two stone in the last couple of years, actualy...

2 answers, latest by FMEE: Start by doing short walks with weights. Then longer and longer walks. Then run short then longer and longer runs. T

Steve0074 – 10/16/2009

I know a lot of people ask this, but asking again is a help in its self. Im struggling with stress. Largely because of work where I feel as if i am unable to achieve anything. With it being work related its an environment i cant simply...

3 answers, latest by PRUDANCE: do you have a family that you can talk to.my husband sufferd from stress 2 years ago.He felt the same as you are now

Steve0074 – 06/17/2009

Hi everyone. What to do? There is so much about my life that causes me pain but for the most part ive learnt to live with it. About a year ago I went sick from work with stress. I left the job, went unemployed for a while, then went back...

Adam W answered: you propably have a depression disorder, which is common, but still needs treated. #x000A;other than that, just liv

answers by Steve0074

03/27/2010
What are you studying at school? is it going to get you a good career or are you just doing schooling for the sake of it and are not really sure what to do? I hate to say it but barely making it is still making it. At least your not building up de...

03/14/2010
Thats what they do. They make money from you with stupid interest rates and then when you can't pay, they take your home and sell it on to make more money. Governments shouldn't allow it but they do. If its costing you that much, sell the house an...

03/14/2010
That you don't read enough history? :) Depending on your point of view war, and terrorism, have achieved a great number of good things. Most americans would agree the War of Independance achieved something good, as would many other countries who h...

03/08/2010
Sometimes the only option is to walk away from problems. I'm sure people will disagree and to be fair i'm sure their points will be valid, however, some problems you just can't resolve, at least not in the way people expect, and walking away can g...

02/04/2010
Its different for each country. The best thing to do is look up the emmigration websites for the country you want to move to. Most countries have them these days. . Some countries require you to have certain things such as x amount of money and...

01/24/2010
Hi Karie. I understand how it feels to feel overwhelmed. . Firstly, its not ok for people to mistreat you. Unfortunately it happens and it is a difficult thing to deal with, especially if those people are the ones you depend on, ie close friend...

01/17/2010
No it isn't. Your best bet is to see a doctor, but you can look up medical advice on the internet as well.

12/19/2009
Hi Benjamin, It can be hard to identify what is making you depressed. I found that a lot of different feelings could be associated with my stress / depression and that has helped me deal with it a little. I did speak with a councillor for a whi...

12/15/2009
Without seeing what you have written it is hard to say. Often, a simple number is more than enough. I would only add a title or heading if you think it will add to the story, for example, if dictating a time line. If you can come up with clever sa...

12/15/2009
It means that it's not the students fault that they fail at school, its the fault of the school for not being able to control the students and find a way to get the students to want to work. Its not really an accurate saying, but is based on...

12/14/2009
I don't have the perfect answer for you, i wish I did so I could use it myself, but here are some things that I have found help a little. . 1) Talking to someone about what is causing you stress. If you can find someone good to talk to you can p...

12/11/2009
Often thats what parents do. As FMEE said, find someone to talk to about it. Talking does help. Even writing a diary can help. I use the one on here and dont mind people seeing what I write, but it does make me feel better to say what is frustrati...

12/11/2009
Honestly Jeremiah, this isn't th ebest place to ask for people to send money. It may be that everything you have written is true, but there are so many people in the world who lie in order to get money that people have very little trust in such re...

10/23/2009
He may not have done anything wrong but you have to make it clear to him how concerned you are and how it is making you feel. Give him the benefit of the doubt but also make it clear that his current actions are affecting you and need to stop. Tru...

10/23/2009
Can your parents not do anything? Bullying is never an easy thing to deal with, especially when it is by a family member. Does he take your stuff when you are not there or does he just take your stuff if he is there or not ? Other than gettting he...

10/20/2009
Personally I am against abortion except in the most extreme of circumstances so I hope you do keep it. I guess what you have to ask yourself, if you have the baby, what are you and the father going to have to do to make sure you and the baby are l...

10/19/2009
I've had to move quite a few times as I grew up in a military family. It is hard to say goodbye but with the internet the way it is, it's a lot easier to stay in touch with people. I've never heard anyone talk about a detaching process before. For...

10/19/2009
what type of things do you want to know? . This is a place where you can get advice from people, or just write down what is on your mind, or where you can help other people. It's also a place where you can make friends. . I would say it isnt ...

10/19/2009
In what way are they the wrong ones? are you doing things because they are easier, or give you short term gains but long term problems? I still make the wrong decisions in many ways, but I now make some right ones. You also have to consider what i...

10/19/2009
It takes some problems away but leaves others behind. My sister died not so long ago. It wasn't suicide but it was the result of her life style (drugs and alcohol). Before she died she did cause the family a lot of problems, but I guarantee every ...

10/17/2009
Hey britty, where are you from? what do you do ? lots of friendly people on here.

10/17/2009
Im not sure what country you are in so what im about to say may not apply. . Your weeks holiday can count towards your notice period in the UK. However, depending on when your holiday year starts and ends, and dependant on how much holiday you h...

10/17/2009
Again its one of these times eher advice will be different depending on where you live. Take benefits. Thats what they are there for. . I have been in this positionm both short term and long term. You can survive.

10/15/2009
HI Brandon. I read your previous posts but beyond the advice that some people gave at the time I don't really know what else to do for you. This isn't really a place where people will hand out financial aid or can do much more than give advice,...

10/15/2009
This may be a long shot but as you are at college im sure there must be some student psychologists around. Could they help you out? Perhaps see if things can be done under the guidance of a professor. It could help them and you.