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i came here to get an answer, then realized my problem was nothing compared to some others...so i thought i'd stick around a bit and help out. i've lived in 4 countries, fought in a war, learned about God, gotten married, and figured out a few things about life along the way.

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09/16/2010
Just to clarify, I never said you will ONLY find them in church. But guys who go to church are more likely to have a set of morals that line up with the Bible which says "Love your wife like Jesus loved us, showing us unconditional love, kindness ...

09/08/2010
Piece of cake my friend! you find them... in churches on sunday morning (not in bars on saturday night), volunteering at soup kitchens or afterschool programs, but they probably won't be the flashy type of guy that is trying to get notice...

09/08/2010
go to "google news" and type in "growing population" you should get tons of newspaper articles for your assignment. You can have it done in a few minutes.

09/08/2010
I dunno loveless, i was just happy to not have to pay rent for my room when i was growing up. Your parents have spent a decent part of their life providing you with good opportunities and a good life. I know you probably understand that now, but ...

08/25/2010
a couple thoughts: Have you asked your daughter what she'd prefer? This is definitely an opportunity to step up and be a great mom, but you have always had that opportunity and will continue regardless of where your daughter lives. Do you have a...

08/25/2010
check out this website: http://www.yourstory.info/

08/25/2010
WARNING: Long response follows.... Sometimes the people who grew up with God take him for granted...kinda like kids who have decent parents seldom realize how good they have it. A good place to start is your personal relationship with God, but ...

08/19/2010
Absolutely, and you need to be smart about it. There are TONS of women who have the skills you have so you should find some way to set yourself apart from the crowd. 1. get free business cards online- (vistaprint.com),and other things that make y...

08/19/2010
Sometimes it can be hard to talk to people when they're a part of a group. It might be better to talk to each person alone, just you and them and tell them that it really bothers you and you know others might joke about it, but you don't want them...

08/18/2010
I know a guy I used to go to church with who can intepret dreams its pretty cool, he's amazing at it....unfortunately I don't know how to get a hold of him. But there are other people out there who are in tune with that stuff.

08/18/2010
its important to remember that all friendships have their time and place. you've done the important thing which is to communicate feelings and ask forgiveness for crap that went on, but sometimes friends come in our lives for a period of time and ...

08/18/2010
u need to sort out everything, i was trying to follow all the feelings you've got going on there, but this is going to be a few steps to get it all straight. First- do you still love your current gf? if yes, then drop the thoughts of the other gi...

08/18/2010
eating too much isn't the problem, its a symptom of a problem. Its like when you get a runny nose/headache/sore throat, those are the symptoms of being sick, but the problem is the virus you have in your body. . eating is a symptom of feeling un...

08/18/2010
A guy once explained the relationship with God like a cosmic game of "hide and seek". God doesn't just want everyone to obey him because they're afraid, he wants them to love and enjoy him, so he whispers to us instead of shouting at us, and so on...

08/18/2010
be honest with him pristila, tell him u liked him, compliment him and stuff (make him feel good) but something changed and there's no feeling in it anymore. apologize and say you're sorry that this is ending so crappily but you don't want to prete...

08/18/2010
lol, ur dreams sound like mine...only I've had dreams that told the future. I used to dream about being in the army before I ever thought of joining. . dreams are supposed to be the spirits/minds way of sorting through things so different part o...

08/18/2010
depends what you wanna do, i'm an army infantry vet, spent time in korea and iraq during the war. If you wanna know what its like to spend a few years in the army infantry, watch "JarHead" the movie. that was reality for me for almost 3 years. ....

08/18/2010
are you safe? it sounds like you don't live with him, is that correct? . assuming you're safe, there may not be a lot you can do. until he admits his problem. You can call together an "intervention". Its basically getting together everyone who...

08/18/2010
are you a part of a support group? you don't have to go it alone. There are all kinds of women who have been where you are and can provide you the strength you need, as long as you're brave enough to reach out. when you're a part of a loving comm...

08/18/2010
it helps to have a solid friend who can help you look at things objectively, but sometimes its hard for us to trust someone else's advice. . but also enjoy the feeling. Sometimes I think if God hadn't created that magical "in love" feeling no o...

08/17/2010
sometimes it can help to get all your thoughts down on paper. I'd suggest sitting down and writing a letter to prom girl about all the hurt you experienced. You don't have to mail the letter, in fact, it might be better not to, but just getting ev...

08/17/2010
I totally agree, I was more explaining the position than giving my personal views, you're accepted by me (there. one down, 1 billion to go).

08/17/2010
When you guys are dating, its fun and exciting for her and there is very little committment, but when you move in together, there is a mental switch in her head that moves you from the category of "boyfriend" into the category of "family" and ALL ...

08/17/2010
We're with you jeremy, we don't know that much about you, but we care for you and want to help however we can. All of us have issues and problems here, we're one big messed up family at helpme.com . Keep us updated on how you're feeling, I'm pr...

08/17/2010
Good advice below, also, it's important to recognize that what you're going through has nothing to do with piano. Its a mindset of unhealthy expectation, you are expecting to fail, you have lots of faith in your failure. . If you take nursing c...