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11/05/2011
If it's going to make her miserable though then it isn't a good thing. As I said, it is her body and her choice, but she doesn't sound too sure herself, so I am merely urging caution.

11/05/2011
Well go to a local fancy dress shop and get some fake blood to splash around... Cutting is a serious problem, and a cry for help, it's not 'sexy'.

11/04/2011
I don't think you really gave prior consent to be honest, but even if you did, it is a sorry excuse of a man that would take advantage of you in that condition. It is NOT your fault, except for getting so terribly drunk that you could allow yourse...

11/04/2011
I'm afraid I think tattoos on women are ugly, but it is your choice to make. If you care about your boyfriend and his opinion, and he is really unhappy about it, then perhaps you should talk about it some more, and give it some thought. Why do you...

11/03/2011
well, coming to terms with the way things are doesn't mean you don't still need help to sort them out. You've taken the first steps by admitting that you have problems, and you've also decided that instead of crying and contemplating suicide, ...

11/03/2011
Don't be ashamed. It's normal to be curious and confused about your sexuality at your age. You may find it was a passing interest, that will go away when some boy approaches you, or you may find that you prefer girls. It's still you, you are not ...

11/02/2011
I think you need to tell an adult, if not parents then perhaps a teacher?

11/02/2011
Modern medicine has pushed back the boundaries so that there is a much higher survival rate now, but no 'cure' yet.

11/01/2011
You say you were diagnosed with BPD, but reading on, it sounds to me like the diagnosis was actually just the opinion of this girl? If you haven't done so, please go and see a doctor and confirm your condition.

11/01/2011
My neice Lucia, is not tall and certainly not blonde but we love her just the way she is. The people that matter in your life don't care if you are not blonde... nno such thing as a 'typical' Lucia... Just be Louise, Louise is special.

10/31/2011
errr... so has someone asked you to pay for it? Something is worth whatever anyone is prepared to pay. For some people this place is priceless.

10/31/2011
If he is the right one then he will still love you. Explain to him why you felt you had to keep it to yourself, and that you are telling him because you trust him. This was NOT your fault, and you have nothing to be ashamed of.

10/28/2011
Be cautious about how you tell him to leave you alone, and don't do it unless there are other people around. It may just be a harmless crush, but it's best to be careful.

10/28/2011
Give your relationship a chance and stop thinking about your old friend. Neither of you are free, so try not to contact him. This crush will fade once you carry on with your real life.

10/27/2011
'Well faint heart never won fair lady' as the saying goes. You are miserable now, so if you tell her and she is not interested, then you won't be any worse off. Take a deep breath and tell her how you feel. Good Luck.

10/27/2011
Have you asked him to leave you alone? If you have and he persists, then you should tell a teacher. Arrange to go home with someone else, and perhaps your mom or big brother or someone can walk you to school for a while. Can you go a different rou...

10/26/2011
No you are not a whore, don't be silly. You say your roommate is a player and took advantage of you.. but If you want sex and he's available, and he's good at it, then as long as you go into it with your eyes open, and don't expect something he ca...

10/26/2011
Viki why are you here? Do you need something from us? Tell us what it is and perhaps we can help. I understand what you are saying, for instance many young ones who come on here desperate are told by some that it is gods will or some such... which...

10/25/2011
If your man is suitable, why won't your parents accept him? Have they met him? Where do you live Aisha?

10/25/2011
I know your wife 'wants' to move, but she probably understands that you can't do it at the moment. Perhaps you can start to look around if there are any jobs in the area, and how much it would cost to get a place there. Once she sees that you a...

10/24/2011
I think you have to stand your ground and insist he stops. It's one thing to be flirty when he is a single guy, but now he is married and your wishes should be important to him.

10/24/2011
Well what do you like doing? Your hobbies and pastimes may give a clue to what you would like to do for a job. Try volunteering somewhere, and see if you enjoy that. As for your 'tendancy', that will come to you when you are ready, so don't get st...

10/21/2011
I'm sorry you have so much trouble, but if you are disabled then there are agencies that will be able to help you and your children,

10/21/2011
No don't tell him. If it was a brief fling that you now regret why ruin his life too. Not that it's right but you should be the one suffering not him. Think long and hard about why you cheated, and whether it is likely you'll do it again. Make...

10/19/2011
Sweetheart, just ditch him and his nasty mates. Lots more pebbles on the beach, and you deserve a nice boy.